Crocheted Rag Rug: My First Ever Crochet Project

Having appreciated the works of knitting ang crocheting ever since I knew them I finally came to crochet my own first ever project -a rag rug made of old tees using a self-made numberless crochet hook out of a mango twig.

We have quite a number of old t-shirts that cannot be given away because, obviously, they're so old that we don't want to wear them ourselves so how can we give them away, right? So I decided to make yarns out of them (not all tees are good for yarns) and make rugs. The finished project is the above picture. It has taken me quite a while to finish it but I enjoyed doing it and yeah, old tees became more useful. Instead of burning them, most part of tees were used as yarns and made into something that can be used for a few more years as household items.

I did this project by downloading a youtube video and noted down the procedures of the pattern. Here's the link.

Spread The Seeds, Spread A Message

Spread The Seeds, Spread A Message is a personal attempt to help animals get back what they lost because of human interference and stupidity. Over the years I have witnessed and pondered how difficult the lives of these animals have become. I often wonder how and where do they get their food just to sustain a day's forage when only a few fruit-bearing trees are available around. They are the only ones who truly feel and endure the suffering of their existence, and I, looking at them, have to do something about it.

On the road, one can witness large groups of monkeys sitting and waiting for people to throw food at them. For the people's side, it is highly irresponsible of them to throw slices of bread or any other forms of food to these monkeys thinking they are doing the right thing for these animals. Hardly any help at all. What they are doing does more harm than good. Why? Because by doing so they are encouraging monkeys to stay on the road and become dependent on human "goodness" thus putting the lives of these animals in a high danger zone for most of the times they become victims of hit and run. This action makes them dependent on humans (and making anyone dependent on you is the greatest mistake you can ever do). Doing this is like making them eat one day and letting them starve for the rest of their lives.

Any sane person who is genuinely wanting to help animals get food must do something other than this.

One can start reforestation by planting or spreading fruit-bearing trees.  One can plant fruit-bearing trees in their own compound -some other animals will definitely be happy about it. Collect seeds including vegetable seeds, flower seeds and spread them in areas less frequented with people, in the forest. This action does not need an organization to start. Individuals can do it.

So this is what I am doing. I am collecting any kind of seeds (the above pictures are mango and ado or peach seeds) and spread them somewhere in the forest. Some may come up, some may not, or all may not come at all but it's an act worth trying. It's not a big one but I know some animals might benefit from it.

And to you, dear readers, if you have understood my cause, you already know what to do.

Living Healthy-ly

This is the image which you will find inside our kitchen cupboards - heaps of fruits and vegetables, if it's a day or two after we have gone to the market, which we do every 4 or 5 days walking. Sometimes we ask one of our regular sellers to drop some items like 5 kls. pomegrenate, papayas, watermelon, onion, banana, greens, cucumber, a tray of egg, etc. -stuffs that don't need much personal picking like mangoes, peach or ado.

When we go, we walk to the market which is about 1500 meters carrying 4 big clothing bags -polythene and other plastics are strictly a no-no for us, as much as possible.

So, we have been on this diet for over a year now - more on raw foods such as seasonal fruits and vegetables. I do the least cooking, I think. One tea in the morning and in the evening. Then one cooked meal like bun toasting with salad (salad is uncooked, of course) or aloo paratha with palak paneer or just plain and simply-made greens like boiled lungdu (fiddleheads fern)/mustard greens/spinach/beetroot leaves, etc. with tomatoes and sauteed garlic.

So almost every day, there will be only one major cooking. Sometimes, depending on how many varieties of fruits and vegetables we have we ditch cooking altogether, except for two small cups of teas. Living minus the cooking is doable, very doable but I guess I would like to cook some stuffs sometimes.

Motherhood: A Prison?

This was on the Facebook wall of one of my friends who just recently had a child and reading all the comments made me laugh because all the comments were positive, you know the portrayal of how difficult it is to be a mother to a newborn child, how much time they spend time in tending their child, how much they can relate to that statement, etc. Not one of them realized the negative impact of this statement. 

There are four words that are very inappropriate in this statement:
PRISONER, ESCAPING, JAIL, and FREE.

Really? Rearing a child makes a mother feel like a prisoner, like someone who tried to escape everytime, and that a life with a child is like living in jail? And that too, a little break means FREEDOM to a mother? Ha ha! Great! Tsk!

Why the hell they had a child then? Do they realize how messed up this statement is? And those who read this didn't disagree to it? Oh, the idiocy of mankind.

I am not a mother (and I don't intend to create another being) but I would never say "I am not a mother so I don't know how to raise a child (telling to a mother)". Saying so is like I need to have a car to learn driving. 

You see, readers, no child has ever asked a parent that they wanted to be born. Being born is no way a child's choice. So whose choice it is? The parents, especially the mother, and to view motherhood and describe it like the above statement is just wrong...very wrong and idiotic! Any child whose mother's views are like that one above must be ashamed of her/his mother and demand her to change her views or "de-mother" her altogether.

"There must be some pre-requisite before someone can become a parent." 

(A line from the movie, Detachment)

Missing Missing Coonee

You got it right! Coonnee has been missing for more than a month now. We don't know what happened to her, what we have are only speculations based on how she has become for the last 2 years. Most probably she's dead considering her physical conditions. She was almost fully blind and her hind bones were weak. And any chasing with dogs and monkeys would put to her disadvantage. She could be a victim to a leopard, too. We really cannot say! We have looked for her but there's no trace of any dead animal within a few hundred meters.

Although she was blind she almost always wanted to stay outdoors, which we consented. I guess she has led a pretty good and happy free cat-life.

It has taken me this long to talk about her and yet thinking about her just makes me cry. It's so sad, really sad. Anyone who has a great attachment with pets knows how it feels to lose them....a loved one. We love this cat. We really had a special inter-specie relationship.

She is missed...she will always be in our heart. Sadness will go sooner or later, our life goes on without her. She will be remembered with fondness, that's for sure!

An Update: August 11, 2014
Connee will never come back to us. We don't know what really happened to her but yeah, we assume she's dead. Oh life, it's end will come sooner or later. We just wished we could bury her. It's the "not knowing what happend to her" that makes her disappearance terrible.