Stupid People: Killing Themselves In The Process

My husband and I just came from marketing, which we do every 3 or 4 days. As usual, we walked to and carried back 2 cloth bags each full of fruits and vegetables and some grocery items. Like any other day, nothing skipped from our observation. And this rant is not new. We've been going on and on about this issue, aside from other social issues, for a long time....anywhere, anytime between the two of us!

So passing by at the Gauchar bridge we always notice...

The seasonal river that really gets ferocious during monsoon
 and the houses that are just right at it!

~the people and their houses, which are built just right on top of the dike constructed to avoid landslide in the area...technically these people are living right on the banks of a seasonal river,

Plastics, bottles, clothing, etc
....up-close!

• their garbage, which is thrown right into this same river. Eventually, their wastes, too, for the outlets are pointing towards the river. Gross!

And when the river becomes heavy enough to wash them off, we are supposed to help them?

We are supposed to lend a hand for they are victims of calamities? And they need our sympathies?

No way!






And on the opposite side of this bridge are, again slum-like houses AND, would you believe it, just right on top of a huge rock where this same river cuts through

Forest Dep't. buildings surrounded by a few trees
and hundreds of different kinds of garbage!

• is a forest department where its staffs reside.  Instead of seeing trees and plants you can clearly witness their stupidity -garbage (plastics, clothing, etc.) thrown left and right visibly piling up on the side wall of the rock which eventually go down to the river and join with the other garbage that many other people contribute from neighboring areas. Forest people huh!

A couple of joint houses just below the FD...would you
let your surroundings look like this?

On top of that, many family members of this force walk through this river area every afternoon (as a routine, imagine that) carrying a plastic bag full of biodegradable and non-biodegradable items (mixed, of course, for obviously they don't have a concept of segregation) and do the same thing as what others do-dumping garbage right into the river!

I mean, are they humans?

It's the same face in most places, I know. I just can't stop ranting about it. I mean, gosh, these people don't deserve to roam the planet, let alone breed more of their kind! Jeez!

What irresponsible people!

The entire walk (about 1.5 km) itself is a pathway of plastics! You know what, the people of this force don't have a sense at all, it's a shame really! They keep chopping Lantanas and other bushy plants that grow along the battalion's fences and in this same stretch, there are hundreds of plastics (chips wrappers, chocolate covers, milk cartons, tin cans, bottles, and other junks). You name it it's there!
Some are even on the road itself! And they are not bothered about it. These things are not considered as something to be picked up and cleaned!

It seems like it is normal for these people to see plastics around, even right at their own door, but when it comes to trees, plants, etc. they're considered nuisance that needs to be cut off!

It would be unfair to just rant about the people of this force and their family members because there are equally idiotic civilians too. And they do the same! Pollute the planet...without a thought!

Students themselves walk these areas and yet, not one seems aware that there is something to be bothered around here. So much for education huh!

I have been in this place for 3 years and yet the boards that say "go clean and green" or "help save the planet by going green" are just plain words intend to remain in boards. Absolutely pathetic! And being a model (carrying our own cloth bags, segregation of wastes, refusing to use plastics, etc.) doesn't seem to have an effect on people. 

My husband used to say, "They themselves are not bothered about their health, what would you expect?"

Precisely!

And just right before the entrance of our campus (upper side) are houses where sewage goes down right on the pedestrian lane, where, if you aren't careful, you could get a bath of cow dung! (Poor cows though...contained in a 6 by 6-foot prison for milking purposes only so humans could have a glass of milk tea! What a shameful species-humans!

How to Make Cashew Milk

Cashew milk is my favorite of all milk (now I can say it considering I have tried 6 different kinds of milk including cow's milk, which, of course, is for calves! And I am excluding mother's milk because I really don't remember how it tastes anymore and I don't have a plan of having some as an adult...lol).

Anyway, cashew milk is the easiest and quickest to make...tastiest too, for me at least. You have to try it yourself to validate my claim.

We have been having cashew, almond, and soya bean milk coffee alternately since we have become vegans...and cashew milk is on the top list! Expenses-wise? Around similar to the commercial milk available in the market. We are currently paying Rs. 570 to 600 per kilo. A hundred or two more is nothing if it's for the mother cows and their calves. We really don't mind!

So here's how to make it.

1. Soak 50 or more cashews depending on how much milk you want for 6 or more hours, preferably in plain tap water or warm/boiled water, which is optional. I generally use 50 cashews for two people for three sessions and our coffee is much. Our mug is bigger than the usual cup. You can try a lesser quantity first to see the consistency yourself. 

50 soaked cashews ready to be churned and made into milk.
The cashew oil is what makes the water blurry.

2. Discard the water that was used for soaking. Using a mixer/blender, churn the soaked cashews with little water first, enough to break the cashews into little pieces for a full minute churn. Then slowly add more water. It's generally 1:5 ratio (estimation). A glass of cashews requires 5 glasses of water.

(I am using a six-blade liquidizer, the picture above though using a chutney jar (smallest jar), which I just tried out, gives a better result. It's done quickly, too. Just churn the soaked cashews twice without water, then slowly add a little bit of water in next 2 to 3 churning). 

3. For final churn, add the rest of the water keeping notice that there's no little chunk of cashews left hiding at the neck of the jar or at the jar lid. Blend for about a minute more.

4. No need to sieve or strain. For 50 cashews I generate around 500-650 ml. of milk. Afterward, I add a little more water during the making of our coffee. Check milk consistency!

Drink it fresh or keep for later use like coffee or baking. Cashew milk chocolate is also very tasty. Use a plain cocoa powder instead of the commercially available chocolate powder. Cocoa is always known to improve memory. Enjoy!

To make cashew milk coffee: 

Just heat cashew milk, stir quite often and as much as possible never boil to avoid curdling. Generally, this only happens when the milk is a few hours older and not kept in the fridge.
Remove from stove when it's about to boil
then add it to your coffee cup. Done!

Important tip: Use a little, just about a finger tip, cashew milk cream or whatever is left at the sides of a bowl you use for boiling and apply it to your face or hand for a smoother and softer skin. You can even have a spoon of cashew milk itself and apply it to whichever part of your skin. It really works!

Never apply something on your skin that you wouldn't dare 
putting into your mouth!

Notes:

~Too much dilute lacks taste! So make sure it's not too thin nor too thick. Experiment on your own!

~We don't have a refrigerator so the quantity I make is for one day use. If you have a fridge then you can make more and just store the milk in the fridge. Many say it could last for 3 days.

~We make coffee and chocolate drink out of cashew milk.

~We tried tea with it. I made a tea decoction and heated the milk (no extra water this time) at the same time. When decoction was ready, I mixed it with the milk. Sugar was added, too! The result was not that satisfying though not bad. What was not at all likable is when I made the tea decoction with the milk itself. Undrinkable!

~Any idea how to make a memorable cashew milk tea? Let me know!

I believe that if a child is introduced to this milk there is no way that he/she would even like the taste of cow's milk.

And contrary to what we were made to believe by milk industries and advertisers, animal milk is THE most unhealthy milk you could ever drink yourself or give to your children.

The purpose of milk, mother cow to her calf, and human mother to her baby is for growth. Cow's milk is never for humans and human milk is only for babies, not for adults. So just imagine if, after weaning, kids continue to drink cows' or other sources of animal milk (they are forced to, sometimes)!

Humans are the only species who steal another species' milk just for taste...a taste that poses danger and expensive consequences.

21st Century Diet: A 10-Day Chronicle

From being a thoughtless and heartless consumer of meat and dairy for 27 years, I became a vegetarian for 7 years...and now, finally for the last 3 months, I adopted the most compassionate way of living- being a vegan. And I must say, this is the greatest and most positive act I could do to my fellow creatures who I call friends and family, to my own health, and to my only home-Earth!

But before anything about this diet, a little bit of history...

My husband has given up meat and encouraged his family to become vegetarian when he was 16. He even went vegan for 8 years after that, but somehow along the way, according to him, he got lost or perhaps deadened by the vitamin B12 idea (which now he finds ridiculous and just an excuse) and went back to consuming milk and eggs.

As for myself, I grew up in Philippines, brought up the Filipino-way, followed the Filipino culture and traditions for 27 years without a thought...without question. So when I came to India, without apprehension, I became a vegetarian, too. It was surprising it was a change I accepted so easily (easier when you fully understood the concept behind any change, when the change isn't about you but of something else, in this case, the animals).

I really didn't struggle...a kind of change that many find difficult, even impossible. And that was for 7 years!

Just around late August of this year, my husband and I were into watching documentaries...about health in particular. We watched Fat, Sick And Nearly Dead, A Delicate Balance-The Truth, Peaceable Kingdom, Vegucated, Speciesism. Then suddenly it hit us to immediately stop consuming eggs and milk after knowing what kind of situation every hen and cow and every single hatched-egg and newly-born calf goes through before it lands on our table in a place I call hell -horrifying farm factories/slaughterhouses.

We don't want to be part of such atrocity. Not anymore!

It's not what we know that is important. What do we DO with what we know is!

In other words, the hearts that were deadened for years suddenly woke up from deep slumber and finally embraced the greatest act of compassion towards these sentient beings who we've been calling friends and family. And that was it! We became vegan!

So, to share the kind of food we take everyday, I decided to jot them down....not for the entire year (which I was planning to at first -kind of tedious and mind-numbing just thinking about it). We were already following similar diet -more on fruits, vegetables and nuts but with dairy (milk, eggs, curd) before we became vegan. And a little tip, excluding dairy products in our diet gave the final blast to our weight!

This post will cover 10 days from November 21 to November 30, 2014, although I still continue to write down our foods everyday (our way of identifying which fruits and vegetables available month after month). And I am presenting each day through a poster-like post because the one I made at first turned out to be awful I myself don't want to read through the whole article.

So here's the first day...

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Here's the second day (whew, "The Making" takes quite a longer time)

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Notes:

When we eat pomegranate, we make sure we eat the thin white lining in between the seeds (I have never found it's name, though) for they are known to be rich in nutrients too.

When we stir-fry potatoes, they are chopped into small pieces and we leave the skin on (just washed them as thorough as possible). Coconut oil seems the best for this dish.

Here's the third day....

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Notes: 

We see to it that when we make home made soya milk, it's okara should not get wasted so I make okaralette (okara-cutlet) with lots of mixed vegetables as detailed above so it seems  like it's no longer okaralette but vegetable cutlet instead. I add all-purpose flour and whole wheat flour for firming purposes. I think, it's best to boil the potatoes and mashed them then add to the rest of the ingredients. I am going to try it this way next time.

Here's the fourth day....

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Notes:

We don't generally have left over but during this time we couldn't finish the entire vegetable salad. What happened was, just a few minutes after Banu came from his OPD at around 1 o'clock in the afternoon we were buzzed by a neighbor telling us that they found a cat, dead at the electric transformer area. So before taking lunch we checked which cat it was since we are feeding 3 teenage cats- Chamie, Limphi, and KitCat, at that time. It was Chamie and she was electrocuted...we could see a few hair at the tip of a live cable. We really couldn't say how exactly it happened but she was dead, her right mouth was burnt, whiskers were burnt. Probably she has gone there before but at that time there was no electricity/power. Then she tried again, perhaps to catch a bird. This time, she couldn't make it out alive. Just a thought of how she died because no one really knows what happened except Chamie. But what a way to die! I just gave her her breakfast earlier that day and she is no longer coming back. Whew! 

We buried her at around 3 PM when we were able to shut down the power of that particular transformer line. From the time we knew her death, we just couldn't have the appetite to eat.

Anyway, the power of electricity is just mind-boggling! And such a fragile life...if we aren't careful enough!

Anyway, here's the fifth day....

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Notes: Whenever we make fried rice, it always contains lots of vegetables to the extent of having just a little rice...the best way to eat much vegetables. We seldom eat rice and when we do, it's almost always fried rice with mushroom or just plain vegetable fried rice.

These days, unless stated as homemade, we are drinking commercial soya milk -Sofit brand. It's not available in our small town so we asked ITBP truck drivers to get them for us from Dehradun. We are also stocked up with soya beans purchased from a local farmer for Rs. 60 per kilo. Some local villagers-patients of Banu, get us some, too! Because making soya milk leaves us with much okara which we hesitate to waste, we see to it that there's no major stuff to eat in our pantry before making it.

The sixth day, here it comes!

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Notes: Generally, what's available at the market, that too very rarely, are just beet roots without leaves! People don't eat them! So what we do, we tend to ask for the leaves from the vegetable sellers themselves. Fortunately, they're able to provide us with leaves from the local farmers. The thing is, we are more interested in the leaves than the roots. The leaves are very nutritious and sumptuous I can't understand how people miss to eat them. 

Here's the seventh day...

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Notes:

We don't usually do juicing because of pulp/fiber wastage. We rather eat the fruit whole but since we want to get most of citrus fruits available this season, we juice mosambi or sweet lime, maltas, oranges, and kinnow when it is available. Sweet lime is no longer available in our market.

But when we juice banana, grapes, and watermelon (when they're in season) we use a blender to juice them and not the juicer so we will be eating their pulp too.

Our soup doesn't look like "soup". It's more like a gravy dish because we add carrot and lots of ginger and garlic. We also add onion, coriander leaves or spring onion all the time.

Eighth day is here....

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Notes:

Unless stated "each", everything is assumed to be eaten as half each. For example, if it says 2 guavas it means 1 guava is sliced into 4 parts and Banu takes 2 parts and so do I. Another one is the same. It's always like that unless I don't want to eat a particular fruit.

Okaralette is always made whenever we make soya milk at home and it's always packed with an immense amount of vegetables like peas, carrot, cabbage, beans, coriander leaves, ginger & garlic, groundnuts, coconut pieces (not copra, although can be added-I tried once), sesame seeds.

Ninth day it is....

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Notes:

Malta orange is widely available in the market for a month now and it is sold 3 for Rs. 10 although sometimes we get 4 for Rs. 10. The ones that are sweeter are from the village called Mandal near Gopeshwar and although these Maltas go to bigger cities directly like Dehradun, we are fortunate enough to have one vendor who gets this variety here in Gauchar. 

Our vegetable salad is always composed of cucumber, carrot, parsnip, onion, & tomato seasoned with salt, black pepper, mango powder, and vinegar soaked for 30 minutes at least before serving.

Here's the tenth day...

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Notes:

To make cashew milk, I soaked 35 pieces of cashews for at least 10 hours and then blended them thoroughly. It's a 1:5 ratio....so 35 pieces is about half of a glass so the water is about 5 halves of the same glass (It really depends on how thick you want your milk to be...try experimenting). The resulting milk is good for two usage for two people but every time I make 1 session of coffee, I use half cup (our mug size) of cashew milk plus half cup water to make it a little dilute. When it is fully soft, there is hardly okara left so there's no need for sieving. I think, among soya, almond and cashew milk, the latter is the easiest, and quickest to make and tastiest too!

The vegetable juice here is fully dominated by beet root, which explains the color. The orange fruit which we added helped to make the juice drinkable. It's not bad at all!

Amaranth curry was made of green amaranth which is growing profusely in our backyard along with my flowers. When we make curry like this, we generally use spinach but since there are plenty of them around we alternate spinach and amaranth green or red. When it comes to parathas or Indian bread, it's seldom made plain like people make rotis. We see to it that we're not only eating wheat flour but also more of the other good stuffs.

Conclusion:

Veganism is about the welfare of non-human animals. It is about acknowledging the fact that this world isn't only mine to inhabit but to share with these sentient beings. It is about giving them their rights to keep their life free from any kind of threats and untimely death. It is also acknowledging the truth that, like me, they too have families and friends, that they can feel happiness, anger, loneliness, embarrassment, pain...that they scream when hurt...that they want to escape when imprison. 

These realizations made me accept that these beings we brand as non-human animals are just like us! So I chose to be their friends rather than their enemy! And I will be their voice in their voiceless and unheard of world...as much as I can!

And when it comes to food, variety is important. Locally produced goods are also preferred. Seasonal are suggested. It's just that, a market like ours, we can hardly find variety and most of these produce come from towns and cities as far as 1000 km. from here. Some are stored so we avoid them!

Veganism? It is NOT difficult at all! One thing to note though, we are not against eating meat, we are against MURDER...or participating in any kind of violence against the innocent animals. There is no difference between murdering a pig or a chicken or a goat or a sheep or a cow yourself and paying somebody else for the murder of these animals so you could eat meat that you don't need for health nor for survival. So for us, eating naturally DEAD animal is acceptable, not a meat of an animal whose life is forcibly taken...without even a fight!

Stealing for God

I have been so furious since our Gaillardias at front garden bloomed. Between 5:30 to 7:00 when we are still in bed, a few people -women and school kids- pluck these flowers as if they have planted them themselves! Made me think, have these people not learned the sense of propriety or is it because in this campus most things are for free (weekly rations) so they think everything else, including those flowers and vegetables that are planted by a particular household, are also free and at their disposal? Possibly...or worse they have never learned it in their life!

I caught two kids stealing flowers and when asked why their teacher at school asked them to bring flowers. I mean, really? Such education is being taught to these children? Can this be so horrible? Taking something without asking! But isn't it one of the basic manners that we should learn in life? And on top of this, an adult, a grandmother was with the kids. So much for consenting adults, huh!

So what do you think of this?

On different days and different occasion, I have caught 4 women in total right while they were plucking our Gaillardias. When asked, these flowers are for god/to bring to the temple, they replied (all women). 

Horrendous!

God needs offering, huh! But I thought everything is God's so why does he need to be offered something that is already his? It's like you pay me a visit to my house and give me with something, like a bottle of groundnut oil which is right at our cupboard and hand it to me as a gift or visit offering. Isn't it just the stupidest dreadful thing you can do?

So my husband tried to educate them right then itself asking "how would God feel when you bring stolen offerings to him?" They couldn't answer! "You didn't even ask!  What if I come to your house and take something, how would you feel", he added (even if they ask we won't give flowers). He even told them that if they want flowers they can plant themselves and we will provide them with seeds. And guess what, they never came back (to this date) and asked for seeds ( I have plenty because we are moving from this place soon and I always make a garden wherever we land).

And what about the bees, butterflies, and other insects that depend on these flowers? Definitely, everyone who plucks, even if it's theirs, or accepts flowers as gift is a willing participant in this act.

We should even encourage planting lots of plants and flowers to every vacant land, no matter how small, to increase the number of insects that would pollinate our crops. Without these tiny creatures, we would have been long a history.

And come November, it's chrysanthemums time (I have pink, red, and brown) and I am certain they will be the subject of these particular people's eyes. Thinking about them plucking these eye-bewitching loveliness makes me want to cut their hands...really! That angry I am!

I have two ideas though that might make them hesitate to touch these flowers. One, install a camera so later on, I could print their faces on a street billboard (such a small community it wouldn't be hard to recognize). Two, tie a rope of bells onto one hard stem to another so when someone tries to pick one flower it makes sounds so that even if we are asleep or in the farther room we can hear it. Haven't tried this yet though.

For most people, flower picking is somewhat not a big deal but for someone who loves flowers for they are not only planted for self-purpose but also to encourage insect population, it is a serious deal!

But what else can we do other than trying to educate? What else can I do other than being observant and prevent stealing? Nothing! I can be angry as much as I can but it won't make a difference to the people who are involved in such a hideous act.

Which is why, to live in a community where people are responsible for their own action, where people have high regard on the welfare of animals and insects, to the environment as a whole, would be lovely!

Anyway, looking at the pictures here it's no wonder why they are being targeted. They are just gorgeous, and the more I do deadheading the more they flourish. And for many people around here, this flower is not that common...or maybe, our house is the only house around here where flowers are accessible.

But, really...the nerve of these people to dare steal them...and that too, for God? Nonsensical!!!

Update: Since the last "caught", our flowers (chrysanthemums are also in bloom) have been safe. I have no idea why. Could it be that those people stopped stealing after giving them some sense into their heads or they are not around the campus? But one time, I was told (by my husband) that one of those women turned up in the hospital for cough medicine for her kid. Well, they seem to refrain themselves from turning their path to ours and move straight ahead.

Granny Square Flower Bag

Inspired by this gorgeous looking bag which I found at this blog, the pattern of which is sold for $8 (around Rs. 480), I was determined to make a similar one my own. I could have purchased the pattern, because I really like the bag, as long as the price is reasonable enough but Rs. 480 for a pattern is too much. So I made one, instead!

The flower pattern seems simple enough, I thought, and the square, well, there must be a tutorial video on how to make it somewhere. So I spent some time browsing the internet searching for a free pattern or a video tutorial. Around this time, I have already subscribed to one of the best tutorial videos on youtube -sheruknitting. So after some time, I decided to use one of her flower patterns with a few modifications to serve the kind of result I wanted.

So, here is the result of that determination to make one my own.

Although the model is made of three colors, what happened to mine is that I ran out of yarns and I was confident that I could get more only to be disappointed when the three shops ran out of two colors and the shop owners couldn't tell me whether they could get these colors again. So instead of waiting and not finishing this project, I decided to use different colors. So as you can see in these pictures, there are 5 colors. The only consistent color is the square and the middle part of the flower, which is peach. Well, the bag just turned out lovely!

This is the back side of the bag. There are 8 squares in this bag and 1 one-half square.

This is the front of the bag highlighting the handle, where I attached a folded petal flower, the pattern of which is designed by sherru studio, to give the handle an elegant look. I used two threads together in crocheting the handle for strength.

Take a whole look of this granny square flower bag...took me quite many days to finish this project. But there is something that makes me happy doing it. I have not used it yet, but I will certainly take a photo when I get the chance to use it outside.

This is the side view of the bag to take a closer look at the flower, the square and the stitches that were used to sew two squares together.

Finally, this bag used an acrylic type of yarn. To make a bigger version use a 4mm or above size hook. You can use a different flower design. I just chose the 8-petalled flower to make it easier to start making the granny square.

I put a lining inside just to make sure nothing falls off the bag. As usual, the lining is out of my husband's short pants, old but not used much because he didn't like the clothing...which is actually suited for this lining. It already has pockets so I used those sides of the shorts particularly for the lining where I can keep my phone, wallet and other small stuff like keys.

I have not written the pattern of this bag but if you know crochet already it's not difficult. Like I said, the flower pattern is by sheruknitting studio (8-petal folded flower) and I just added 8 more petals to serve as leaves.